I wrote a bit on facing head on the ghost of the 13 May 1969 as well read here:
While many reasonable and moderate Malaysians talks about what we should learn from the tragedy and what we should as a nation learn from it to avert another disastrous tragedy where racism, bigotry and insanity prevailed over tolerance and acceptance. There are unfortunately quite a few pitiful souls among us who in their political bankruptcy would prefer to use the May 13 incident to spook Malaysians by deliberately making it a taboo subject not to be discussed and preferring to blame UMNO and the Malays for that dark event in our nation's history.
For more than 40 years the DAP have used the May 13 incident to spook many non Malays especially our Chinese friends into voting for them. Just read the report from the MI here on Guan Eng's speech in Perak on 14 November 2010 read here, the speech is nothing but full of divisive fitnahs, innuendoes and unproven allegations.
In contrast to the devisive messages from DAP leaders like Lim Kit Siang and his son Guan Eng, BARISAN NASIONAL leaders from UMNO, MCA and MIC and other component parties have always consistently called for unity among races and their message has been consistent since the May 13 1969 tragedy such as these: